Tuesday, February 02, 2010

A relationship without Affection

Are you in a relationship with a person, not necessarily liked to be touched much? We all know that all is just a bit differently about how much they like being touched by how loving they are and when they will love, but nothing is worse than being in a relationship where you are very different. If you've found that you are in a relationship with a person who is not attached, you have to deal with this case instead of just ignoring it. Love is one of the things that most people have a genuine need, and you should not just deny you this need.


Is the person your dating one of those people who do not need to be hugged and kissed often? They often get annoyed with you for trying to keep them after sex or while they sleep? Have you tried to put them while watching television, only to discover that they do not appreciate your love? This can be very frustrating if you are a loving person and you need to solve the problem.


Talk to the person you are dating and let them know you understand they are not everything for love, but you need to touch and be touched. Ask them when it is acceptable for you to try to put up with them, when and how they want to be held and kissed. Many times it's just about finding a date or a time when you both are comfortable with love. Let them know that you just love them and are attracted to them, and you want to express these things to them through contact.


If your companion is not comfortable with touch in all let them know that you respect their feelings, but you need. Tell them you do not want to make them uncomfortable, but you want to meet halfway, so both of you can get your needs met, without any of you to be uncomfortable. Hopefully your love interest will react to this, and you can talk about a way you can both get what you need without giving too much of who you are, or what you do and do not like.


If your mate is not willing to compromise, you should really consider if you're willing to give a true human need to be with them. Not only will you not express the way that you feel through the contact you are not touched, and this can leave you feeling sad and unwanted. If your love interest is really not willing to change everything for you, you have to stop and consider whether this relationship is for you.

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