Wednesday, February 03, 2010

Understanding What He is Saying

Understand what he says

Women often feel as if they are mixed messages from men, and they become frustrated. The truth is that men do not give messages, and it is precisely that there is a gap in what men say and what women hear. Men are often not as straightforward as women want them to be so much of what they say, seem vague and just not quite ready. The result is that women themselves often try to read between the lines, and this can lead to problems because the way that a woman may perceive something may be the opposite of the way that the man meant to be taken ... or not. When you have an idea what he is trying to say that it will make it much easier to find him and what he wants out!


Below are some common things that men say that there is often misunderstood by men:


1. "It is fantastic shoes." Or you can insert a property where we have put the shoes in. When a man says he likes something that you wear or who you are, it means that he likes you, he's just being coy about it. He would not bother to look at what you use, if he does not like you.


2. "I listen" or even "I hear you." When a man says it, he declared that he physically can hear you, but he is not in the mood to get into a long, drawn out in an interview on the subject. If he says this, it would be better to hold off until a time when you both can talk and really be understood.


3. "I think you're too good for me." When a man says it, it's never good news. In trying to say in the most respectful way possible, is that he does not want to be involved in a romantic relationship with you anymore. He tries not to hurt your feelings, so just let him easily.


4. "Let's hang out sometime." When he says this, he asks you out, he's just not exactly on it. He wants to spend time with you and get to know you better, generally you can take this as a good sign that he likes you and asks you out on a date in a very round about way.


5. "I think I'm falling for you." When a man says that it means he really likes you and become closer and closer to actually say that four letter word, but he wants to ensure that you will reciprocate. This is a good time to say it, if you feel it, or at least return the feeling that you too are falling for him, if you are.

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