When you're not ready to commit 

Dating can be very funny, especially when both people involved are on the same page about commitment. If you're just having fun, and the person you have been together is ready for more, it can be quite difficult. There is nothing wrong with not being ready to commit, you should not persuade you to commit if you do not really feel it, you should not feel guilty about it either. All come to the point where they are ready to settle in their own time, and if you hurry you will end up regretting it later.

If the person you have been together tells you that they are ready to commit and you do not feel the same, you just have to be honest. Instead of just not responding or pretending to be as clear as they must solve, you should just be honest and tell them that you are not ready to commit to them alone. Tell them that while you enjoy spending time with them, you're not ready to be tied down yet.

You should let the person down as easily as you can. Instead of hanging them along when they start mentioning or ask for exclusivity, stop it there. If you just can not say anything, they just assume that you feel the same. When they begin to issue comes up, be sure to sit down and talk about things. Be honest from the beginning will help to ease the pressure that you feel and will allow them to take a decision on how to continue.

 

If the person you are dating are trying to increase restrictions on you, which says: "If you're not ready to commit to a year, I'm gone," then you really need to think about this. Would you be willing to commit one year? Can you answer these allegations? Would it just be better to tell them that you will not have requirements for you? You must be honest.

Are you ever going to be ready to settle down and be alone with the person you are dating? If not, tell them so. You do not mean about it, you just need to tell them how you feel. If you just see the person as someone who is fun to hang out with, let them know this. You can not get a positive result, which means that they want to break things off entirely, but it is a chance that you take.

If you are not the calm, you just have to let the person know this up front. In reality, when you meet someone, you should let them know that they are not looking for anything serious. By doing this you should help avoid some of the requirements can be placed on you like a person who is looking for something more. Even if you are asked if you are ready to settle down, you must remain true to yourself.