When you're tired of Fighting

If you are like a lot of people who are in a relationship, you fight and you fight a lot. Indeed, the chances you have continued to fight for days, weeks, months or even years. You will continue to fight until you are so tired of it that you just will not do it anymore. If you're tired of fighting, you can put an end to the stress that the arguments and more in your relationship. If you're tired of fighting and you are dedicated to putting a stop to it, you can turn your relationship around.

Despite what many think, if you're tired of fighting and you want to put a stop to it, you can. You do not both people want to stop fighting, you should just be the one putting a stop to it. The first thing you must do to halt the fighting is really look at your relationship and decide that you want to save it instead of losing it to the fighting and bickering.

Next you'll tell your loved one that you will not fight with them anymore. Let them know that you can disagree and that you may not always agree, but you finish yelling and screaming and all the behavior that has been going on. They may laugh at you or just think you're insane, but let them know that you are finished.

Now that you've set your intention to stop fighting you have to stick with it. You must be honest with yourself on what puts you down and you must press the buttons on your mate. When you're honest with yourself about this, you will discover that it is much easier to get down to the root of the problem and really stop the fighting in its tracks. Once you know what sets you off, you can avoid it, and when you discover that you can also press the buttons, you can make changes in your behavior to diffuse situations.

When a situation presents itself where you would have struggled in the past, you need to change the way you behave so you can not fight now. Either do not press buttons or do not respond when your partner tries to push your buttons. It is easier said than done, but with a little practice and some dedication, not to fight, you will discover that you can do it. Over time, your friend will notice that you do not fight, and they will stop trying so hard, and you'll find they generally throughout your relationship. You are going to disagree from time to time, but the disagreement is not necessary to fight.